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We talked over text for a few days, and then went out for drinks.We ended up having great conversation for five hours and had a lot in common, but I wasn't sure if I was attracted to him," she says.There's only one problem: He wants to keep seeing you."I call this 'pseudo intimacy,'" says Marni Battista, dating and relationship expert and founder of Datingwith "You act like you're getting to know the person through Facebook chatting, texting, talking on the phone, and getting a sense of who they are, all while simultaneously conjuring up this whole fantasy of what you want them to be.During your mutual overshare over text/Facebook/Instagram, you learn too much about him—his work, friends, families, dog, taco preferences, favorite shows. You realize you want absolutely nothing, zero, zip, to do with him.He's texting you just to say, "good night;" lavishing you with compliments. In some cases, you might even hope to Jesus that you never f*cking see him again."Basically, I didn't know if I wanted to put his P in my V.Respecting this guy, I didn't want to lead him on any longer, so I constructed a 'break up' text that basically said, 'I think you're a great guy, but I just don't think we're the right fit.' He replied with a novella of a text that said, 'I just don't get it, I thought we had a great time, did I do something wrong?
I have to much going on right now and I don't have time to be in a relationship.
I didn't want to take it any further, or lead him on, but since we had talked for a legit amount of time before actually hanging out, I felt like I had to "break up" with him rather than do the "slow fade" or just stop talking to him cold turkey.
According to our girl Marni, my situation happens all the time.
Am I breaking up with you, or your other personality?
Well actually I don’t date much but - I do practice breaking up with gals. I get a phone book and call them at random.“Hello - you don’t know me but - my needs have changed and I don’t think we should see each other anymore - or ... I would like to wish you and yours the very best”Good bye.